3 Things Women Over 50 Must Know About Losing Weight —What No One Talks About!

Emily Moss • February 3, 2025

3 Keys to Lasting Weight Loss After 50

Losing weight after 50 is not the same as it was in your 30s.


I thought I was doing everything right—cutting calories, walking more, swapping pasta for zucchini noodles—but my body wasn’t changing. The scale wouldn’t move, my stomach felt soft, and I had zero energy by mid-afternoon.


Sound familiar?


After years of trial and error, I finally cracked the code. And it had nothing to do with extreme diets or exhausting workouts. It came down to these 3 key things that most women over 50 are either missing or getting wrong.


Let’s get into it.


1️⃣ You Don’t Need to Eat Less—You Need to Eat SMARTER

For years, I believed that eating less was the answer to weight loss. I tried:



🚫 Tiny portions
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1200-calorie days
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Cutting carbs, then fat, then anything “fun”


And guess what? It worked… temporarily. But soon, I was:


Hungrier than ever
Losing muscle instead of fat
Crashing in the afternoon and craving sugar


👉 Here’s the truth: Women over 50 don’t need LESS food; they need the RIGHT food.


More protein – Keeps you full, protects muscle, and burns more fat.
More fiber – Supports digestion and helps control cravings.
Enough calories – So your metabolism doesn’t stall.


💡 What to do instead:

  • Start building your meals around protein (aim for at least 25-30g per meal).
  • Swap low-calorie snacks for high-protein, filling options like Greek yogurt or cottage cheese.
  • Stop fearing food! Your body needs fuel, not deprivation.

Once I ditched the dieting mindset and focused on fueling my body properly, I finally saw real results—without feeling like I was constantly fighting hunger.

2️⃣ Strength Training Is Your Metabolism’s Best Friend

I used to think the best way to lose weight was to:


🏃‍♀️ Do more cardio
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Burn more calories
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Sweat it out in every workout


But despite hours of walking, jogging, and spin classes… my body wasn’t changing.


Why? Because muscle is the key to fat loss.


👉 More muscle = higher metabolism.
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Lifting weights won’t make you bulky; it will make you LEAN.
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After 50, we naturally lose muscle—unless we actively work to build it.


💡 What to do instead:

  • Swap endless cardio for strength training 2-4x per week.
  • Focus on compound movements (squats, deadlifts, push-ups, and rows).
  • Don’t fear heavier weights—muscle takes up less space than fat, so you’ll actually look leaner!

The first time I committed to strength training, my body finally started toning up, my metabolism sped up, and I felt stronger than ever.


3️⃣ Your Hormones Are The Boss—And You Need To Work With Them, Not Against Them

Here’s something no one told me before menopause:


🔥 Your hormones run the show. And they don’t play fair.

🚨 Cortisol (stress hormone) = belly fat storage
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Low estrogen = weight gain, especially in the midsection
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Poor sleep = cravings and slowed metabolism


I was working harder than ever, yet my body was holding onto weight like its life depended on it.


👉 Once I learned how to balance my hormones, my body started working with me instead of against me.


💡 What to do instead:

  • Prioritize stress management (high cortisol = stubborn belly fat).
  • Get at least 7 hours of quality sleep (bad sleep = more cravings).
  • Ditch extreme workouts—long, intense sessions can increase stress hormones, making weight loss harder.


The moment I stopped ignoring my hormones and started supporting them, I noticed a huge shift—less bloating, better energy, and weight that finally started moving.


The Bottom Line: Simple, Sustainable Changes = Big Results

If you’re tired of feeling stuck, stop doing what doesn’t work and start focusing on:


✔️ Eating MORE of the right foods (not starving yourself)
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Prioritizing strength training (not endless cardio)
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Managing stress & sleep (not ignoring your hormones)


This isn’t about quick fixes or crazy diets—it’s about giving your body what it actually needs to thrive at any age.


Now It’s Your Turn!

👉 Which of these 3 things do you need to focus on most?
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Have you been stuck in the diet & cardio cycle like I was?


Drop a comment below or send me a message—I’d love to help you get started on a plan that actually works for you!


Supporting Your Success,

Emily

emily moss of thrivyest lifestyle fitness and accountability coaching for women
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